Monday, November 05, 2007
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Please do read it....................
Don’t know who wrote it, but a well Versed, superb Expression!!!
The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family
name.
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen.
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe
more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you
are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and
knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns
faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men
at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is
willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational
jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink just as well as you can, but won't, simply
because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows
in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
After all "Behind every successful man there is a woman".
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
This one was supposed to be penned a month back. But owing to my JAVA learning spree, I was able to spill my words only now. My second interview occurred without much fanfare in the last week of August. Though being a Graduate of Telecommunications, many wondered (even myself) how could I manage in a job that
is purely IT based. I knew pretty well, the interviewers were not very much impressed by my technical armory, but rather on my CRM skills. I did not realize that my CRM skills would fetch me a technical job and most amazingly in IT. I got a positive nod after a couple of days. Being a true scorpion at times, I called back my interviewer and questioned him, "Afterall, why me?” He was taken back a bit but answered
casually, "Sri! I was worse than you when I stepped in IT, as my field was basically mechanical engineering". (Hmmm!!! So I was worse. Is it?).My Boss posed to be a archetype for my budding IT career. I always sport a look which resembles a great fervor for learning. I think he was "bowled over" by my "seemed- to- know" answers. When I stepped into my new office, I could not even find a single young soul around me. I was extremely fascinated by the way a software team works on a project which was GREEK, SPANISH, and FRENCH to me. Its still is. I could see grey-haired experience, technical skills ubiquitously strewn through out my office. Keeping a low profile at this juncture won’t cost your life. For the past one month, "Learn to Survive"
has become my karmic chant. I am on a song these days, enjoying my new job, new friends (actually bit old!!!). On the whole, inspite of being bit late, I got it.
Monday, October 15, 2007
SEVENTEEN:
U LOOK AT THEIR PROFILE/PICTURE CONSTANTLY
SIXTEEN:
WHEN YOUR ON THE PHONE WITH THEM LATE AT NIGHT AND THEY HANG UP, YOU
STILL MISS THEM EVEN WHEN IT WAS JUST TWO MINUTES AGO.
FIFTEEN:
YOU READ THEIR TEXTS or IMS OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
FOURTEEN:
YOU WALK REALLY SLOW WHEN YOU'RE WITH THEM
THIRTEEN:
YOU FEEL SHY WHENEVER YOU'RE/THEY'RE AROUND.
ELEVEN:
WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THEM, YOUR HEART BEATS FASTER AND SLOWER AT THE
SAME TIME
TEN:
YOU SMILE WHEN YOU HEAR THEIR VOICE.
NINE:
WHEN YOU lOOK AT THEM, YOU CAN'T SEE THE OTHER PEOPLE AROUND YOU, All
YOU SEE IS HIM//HER.
EIGHT:
YOU START LISTENING TO SLOW SONGS, WHILE THINKING OF THEM
SEVEN:
THEY'RE ALL YOU THINK ABOUT.
SIX:
YOU GET HIGH JUST FROM THEIR SCENT.
FIVE:
YOU REALlIZE THAT YOU'RE AlWAYS SMILING TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU THINK
ABOUT THEM.
FOUR:
YOU WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR THEM, OR ANYTHING TO SEE THEM.
THREE:
WHILE READING THIS, THERE WAS ONE PERSON ON YOUR MIND THE WHOLE TIME...
TWO:
YOU WERE SO BUSY THINKING ABOUT THAT PERSON, YOU DIDN'T NOTICE NUMBER
TWELVE.
ONE:
YOU JUST SCROLLED UP TO CHECK & ARE NOW SILENTLY LAUGHING AT YOURSELF.
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Man: Is there any way for long life?
Dr: Get married.
Man: Will it help?
Dr: No, but the thought of long life will never come.
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Why do couples hold hands during their wedding?
It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the fight begins!
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Wife: Darling today is our anniversary, what should we do?
Husband: Let us stand in silence for 2 minutes.
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It's funny when people discuss Love Marriage vs Arranged.
It's like asking someone, if suicide is better or being murdered.
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It is difficult to understand GOD. He makes such beautiful things as
women and then he turns them into Wives.
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If u r married please ignore this msg, for everyone else: Happy Independence Day
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Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about
something you say.
After marriage, he'll fall asleep before you finish.
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There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than
electronic banking. It's called marriage.
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Girlfriends r like chocolates, taste good anytime.
Lovers r like PIZZAS, Hot n spicy, eaten frequently.
Husbands r like Dal RICE, eaten when there's no choice.
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Man receives telegram: Wife dead-should be buried or cremated?
Man: Don't take any chances. Burn the body and bury the ash.
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Prospective husband: Do you have a book called 'Man, The Master of Women'?
Salesgirl: The fiction department is on the other side, sir.
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There was this guy who told his woman that he loved her so much that
he would go through hell for her. They got married and now he is going
thru hell.
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Fact of life: One woman brings you into this world crying & the other
ensures you continue to do so for the rest of your life!
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Q: Why doesn't law permit a man to marry a second woman?
A: Because as per law you cannot be punished twice for the same offence!
This was sent to me specially by my friend from India.....truly did made me smile...read on
21. Tries to use credit card in road side hotel.
20. Drinks and carries mineral water and always speaks of health
conscious.
19. Sprays duo such so that he doesn't need to take bath.
18. Sneezes and says 'Excuse me'.
17. Says "Hey" instead of "Hi".
Says "Yogurt" instead of "Curd".
Says "Cab" instead of "Taxi".
Says "Candy" instead of "Chocolate".
Says "Cookie" instead of "Biscuit".
Says " Free Way " instead of "Highway".
Says "got to go" instead of "Have to go".
Says "O" instead of "Zero", (for 704, says
Seven O Four Instead of Seven Zero Four)
16. Doesn't forget to crib about air pollution. Keeps cribbing
every time he steps out.
15. Says all the distances in Miles (Not in Kilo Meters), and
counts in Millions. (Not in Lakhs)
14. Tries to figure all the prices in Dollars as far as
possible (but deep down the heart
multiplies by 43 times).
13. Tries to see the % of fat on the cover of a milk pocket.
12. When need to say Z (zed), never says Z (Zed), repeats "Zee"
several times, if the other person unable to get, then says X,
Y Zee(but never says Zed)
11. Writes date as MM/DD/YYYY, on watching traditional DD/MM/
YYYY, says "Oh! British Style!!!!"
10. Makes fun of Indian Standard Time and Indian Road Conditions.
9. Even after 2 months, complaints about "Jet Lag".
8. Avoids eating more chili (hot) stuff.
7. Tries to drink "Diet Coke", instead of Normal Coke. Always
drinks BISLERI water!!!
6. Tries to complain about any thing in India as if he is
experiencing it for the first time.
5. Pronounces "schedule" as "skejule", and "module" as
"Mojule".
4. Looks speciously towards Hotel/Dhaba food.
Few more important
3. From the luggage bag, does not remove the stickers of Airways
by which he traveled back to India, even after 4 months of arrival.
2. Takes the cabin luggage bag to short visits in India , tries
to roll the bag on Indian Roads.
Ultimate one
1. Tries to begin conversation with "In US ...." or "When I
was in US..."
Thursday, September 13, 2007
A Short Story - Truly Inspired
Friends,
Today I have a small story to share… I hope it will leave you with a beautiful feeling at the end…
One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.
On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"
"It was great, Dad."
"Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked.
"Oh yeah," said the son.
"So, tell me, what you learned from the trip?" asked the father.
The son answered:
"I saw that we have one dog and they had four.
We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have
a creek that has no end.
We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night.
Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.
We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight.
We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.
We buy our food, but they grow theirs.
We have walls around our property to protect us; they have friends to protect them."
The boy's father was speechless
Then his son added, "Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are."
Isn't perspective a wonderful thing? Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don't have. Appreciate every single thing you have, especially your friends!
"Life is too short and friends are too few."
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Valuable banking:
Rajiv and Mona are flying to
Suddenly, over the public address system, the Captain announces, "Ladies and Gentlemen, I am afraid I have some very bad news.
Our engines have ceased functioning and we will attempt an emergency landing. Luckily, I see an uncharted island below us and we should be able to land on the beach. However, the odds are that we may never be rescued and will have to live on the island for the rest of our lives!"
Thanks to the skill of the flight crew, the plane lands safely on the island.
An hour later Rajiv turns to his wife and asks, "Mona, did we pay our Rs 5lakh deposit cheque yet to Bank?"
"No, sweetheart," she responds.
Rajiv, still shaken from the crash landing, then asks, "Mona, did we pay our Bank Master card yet?"
"Oh no! I'm sorry. I forgot to send the cheque," she says.
"One last thing, Mona. Did you remember to send cheques for the auto loan to them too this month?" he asks.
"Oh, forgive me, Rajiv," begged Mona. "I didn't send that one, either."
Rajiv grabs her and gives her the biggest hug in 40 years. Mona pulls away and asks him, "So, why did you hug me?"
Rajiv answers, "They'll find us!!!!"
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
I loved reading this!!!
Feelings.....
When I saw your name next to mine,
In our wedding card,
I felt blessed.
When I saw you smile,
Seeing me in the traditional bride groom dress,
I felt teased.
When I held your hand,
During the marriage rituals,
I felt responsible.
When you entered my lonely bachelor life,
And changed it into a heavenly abode,
I felt lucky.
When you showed the same love as I did,
Towards my parents,
I felt proud.
When you scolded me,
For neglecting my heath amidst my hectic work,
I felt pampered.
When I saw you scream,
Crying out of labor pains,
I felt helpless.
When I saw tears of happiness in your eyes,
As you looked at our kid,
I felt blessed once again.
All these feeling have bloomed in my heart,
But are yet to blossom in reality.
As these are feelings I long to feel,
For these are still unfelt.
Will you marry me?
GUYS!!! You have a chance if you follow it.
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
We started on a cool morning on 10th May from Udumalpet, a town from Coimbatore district in the early hours with Ramesh, Badri and Dinesh whom i knew through Ramesh. we had a white
Then came the next day. None would forget this scary, memorable, tiresome day in their life. We all got up bit late as we hit to bed late. The day was bit scorching. The forest jeep came to pick us for a ride.We all started by almost 10:30am which was very late from our plan.
we travelled through some rocky roads which really did not have any path in particular. Finally our driver left us on a high cliff. Now our trekking started which was deep below. There was a temple in the middle of the forest which was totally 5kms from the top of the cliff. We started exactly at 12 which was so sunny for the day.Only big blunder was we did notcarry water. On the way deep down the rocky passage we could see some elephant trails which brought a chill down on our spine. Hearts started beating bit fast when we saw some fresh elephant waste. It was bit difficult for us as we did not have a recent trekking experience.The forest staff who accompanied us gave us one more shock that he did not bring weapons for safety. He said we all started late as this time being too hot, animals will come to the river to quench their thirst.
We had reasons to get scared as we all need to cross the stream to reach the jungle temple. Ramesh became bit furious as we were not in a mood to risk our lives. Finally we made up our mind. Come what may we started towards the stream.We saw a bison which was so huge in size.We were about to cross the river when we heard a deep growl nearby. Thats it! we thought
of getting back as we did not even have a weapon. We saw a leapord or cheetah some 50 feet away but it just vanished into the bushes.We all started praying our favourite gods to get back safely. We finaly crossed the stream which was so muddy.We reached the temple finally.
It was bit scary as we were totally surrounded by forest and we started imagining if we came across any wild animal and the nearest place to hide.We started back after spending some time. By the time the sun was on top of us and it was so hot. I almost knocked the doors
of heaven as the sun was too much for me.Finaly it took us 2-3 hours to climb back to the jeep waiting for us. Since we called for help, a forest ranger came with his staff to aid us. Since I was so drowsy and head spinning, they caught hold of me and took me to their vehicle. Finally we reached the guest house and all guys were served lemonade which brought our lives back. We took a small nap and had lunch. I was still tired but was really excited that we were leaving the place. Then around 3pm we started off to Ooty through the Mudhumalai road and reached Sterling Group of Hotels at Elk Hill around 6pm. We did not wander much in the same evening. Ramesh's parents had also come to meet us. That day Ramesh and myself, the two
great cooks(!!!!!!) decided to risk the guys lives with our cooking. It was wonderful experience as we tried to cook the dish with available resources we had.We hit to bed after receiving one more member Ganesh. It was such a memorable moment as we all guys were together after 4 years.
Day 4:(May 13th 2007)
Day 5:(May 14th 2007)
decided to leave as another guy Arun had to board the bus to chennai the same evening. We rushed back in time and send him off. We had seafood dinner at a "very good" chinese restaurant. Cant forget the bearer who fooled us with the bill and also Badri who was backing him. It was fun any way. We hit back to bed after cleaning the kitchen.
Day 6: (May 15th 2007)
bro Rajkumar for letting this happen. Wish to plan one more soon.....................
Thursday, March 15, 2007
Saturday, February 03, 2007
The Pursuit of HappYness:
One of the memorable movies that will linger my heart forever.An excellent heart breaking performance from Willy!Kudos for that. This was one of the true life depicted stories Will has acted after ALI. This movie is all about Chris Gardner, a struggling salesman who tries hard to sell bone density scanners for a living. His wife, desperate about the life works on a double shift for running the family. Chris has an eye on becoming a stock broker through an internship, which is difficult for a person like him. Due to this his wife leaves him along with the kid. Will fights back and gets back his son, played by Jaden Smith, Willy's real son. He has to be appreciated for his commendable performance matching his dad. Willy through hard work starts to prepare for the internship. He is forced to leave home with Jaden. His days become more miserable when he gets jailed for his car in non-parking area. His bank accounted gets empty due to tax seizures adding much misery. One such a time he stays in a toilet of a railway station for a night which shakes you altogether as he cries for the first time, having his kid sleeping beside him. He always wonders how the people around him can be so happy and he feels out of the blue. Willy has sported a different get up for this movie which exactly suits him as a struggling middle class man. He attends his internship interview straight from the jail with shabby clothes and makes the interviewers look at him so weird. There are a few good moments shared by the father and son regarding English vocabulary. Its like a gentle wind in a struggling life of Chris Gardner. The meaning of "possibly" and "probably" by Willy and the instance by son Jaden is funny and excellent.